2) Language: I was talking with a friend when a GM warned me about my language when we were alone.

This is a roleplaying shard, any foul and otherwise obscene language will not be tolerated. Understand there's a BIG difference between damn and G*ddamn M**her F*&ker. Now granted we don't care if you and your friend are in your house and want to curse each other out for a laugh, again the point here is to use common sense and not be offensive as it is OUTSIDE the game and will not be tolerated.